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Healing the puzzle
You are not broken — You are a mysterious puzzle
To me healing is an ongoing process. It’s never about finding a cure from being broken, ill, or sick - it’s about putting the randomly scattered pieces together so life becomes good again.
When you’re completely healed, your past, people and events in it, everything, are valued and appreciated parts of you. There’s no blame, guilt, negative feelings, or regrets - it all comes together in a good way, and you can look back at your life and feel grateful for it, for lessons learned and experiences.
Then one is truly healed.
For most people that kind of complete healing never happens. But if or when, or how much or how little, doesn't mean one is healed for good. Every day creates another little piece that needs to fit in, and sometimes other pieces need to be rearranged again to do that. It's a work in progress.
THAT’S what I mean whenever I say that you got healing to do - you have pieces to put together and you need to do that work. And now is as good a time as any, with other changes happening and new pieces taking shape, it is always a good time.
